Every day you say to yourself, “I just want to feel loved!”

You are so tired of not feeling loved.

And yet no one seems to care. No one seems to understand this void you feel inside. Because if they did, surely, they’d ask what you need to feel loved.

They would do everything within their power to love you in your love language.

Can you relate?

You are not alone. There are many others just like you–missing that feeling of love in their life.

Using the Google Keyword Research tool, I did a little research to gain more insights for those of you who “just want to feel loved.”

Here is what I discovered:

5 top insights for when you just want to feel loved:

1. Women are looking to feel more love, more often (from their husbands/boyfriends)
2. People associate feeling loved with feeling special
3. Feeling appreciated impacts whether someone feels loved or not
4. If you don’t feel wanted, you are likely to feel unloved
5. Many individuals once felt love in the past, but are now ready to feel love again

Women are looking to feel more love, more often (from their husbands/boyfriends)

Now, this may sound like a cliche, but after some research–the top Google searches related to the desire to feel loved, are “I just want to feel loved by my boyfriend/husband” NOT “I just want to feel loved by my girlfriend/wife.”

This could mean a few things:

1. It takes more for women to feel loved
2. Women are more proactive about exploring solutions to their unmet needs
3. Men are not using google as their sounding board
4. Women are simply better at making men feel loved, so men aren’t as likely to search for ways to feel more love

Now, whether you’re a man or woman, could affect your opinion on this matter. But nonetheless, many women want to feel more loved by their boyfriend or husband.

Sometimes, understanding more about our nature, as either women or men, can help us to accept or change our circumstances and mental outlook.

Women, you are not alone in your desire to feel more loved. Men, you are not alone in what may feel like a deficiency — not loving your woman in a way that makes her feel it deep in her bones.

We are not disregarding those men who also feel unloved, just sharing our initial research limited to keywords.

So, maybe it’s true. Maybe women do need more when it comes to stoking the fire of love. Regardless of one’s sex (or sex for that matter), what contributes to whether someone feels loved or not?

With some further research, here is what we found.

People associate feeling loved with feeling special

Many associate feelings of love with someone else’s recognition that they are special or unique. Therefore, if you are unable to articulate the special reason(s) you love someone, they may still feel unloved.

And for those who don’t feel special, there’s likely some inner work you can do instead of sitting on your hands and waiting for someone else to make you feel that way.

There is no one like you! There really isn’t! You are one of a kind. Your loved one will never find anyone else like you. Literally! Think about it.

Whether they know how to tell you or not, you will always be special.

Therefore, you are loved.

Feeling appreciated impacts whether someone feels loved

Feeling special to someone is only one part of the picture. It’s also nice to be recognized for what we bring to a relationship.

What burden do you carry that your spouse does not? What do you contribute that you feel goes unrecognized?

Lack of recognition can slowly wear us down over time. It’s possible that we feel completely unseen by our partner. Or it’s possible that you’re the one going about your merry way, while failing to recognize all that your spouse brings to the relationship.

Showing mutual appreciation is a key aspect of evoking that feeling of being loved.

If you don’t feel wanted, you are likely to feel unloved

Your husband or wife or boyfriend or girlfriend tells you they love you, but they never initiate intimacy, or spending time with you, often prioritizing other people or things over you.

Perhaps they never express why you are attractive to them. It’s possible they are dealing with their own insecurities, focused on what you’re not giving them rather than what they may be able to give to you.

Feeling unwanted is directly correlated with feeling unloved.

So, ask yourself, what can you do to show your partner you still want them?

Yes, you married them. Yes, you agreed to “go steady.” But, beyond the comfort of a committed relationship, it’s important to remain intentional about showing your loved one they are wanted.

Many individuals once felt love in the past, but are now ready to feel love again

When we’ve felt loved in the past but then lose that love, whether to death or a breakup–despite popular opinion, it can sometimes be worse than never having experienced love before.

We get stuck in this weird place of wondering whether it’s possible to experience that type of love and intimacy with someone else again.

There may even be a tinge of guilt for entertaining the idea of someone else making us feel loved.

Nonetheless, you are not alone.

Many people are out there ready to love again.

You just might be their match–two people who have known love and are willing to take a chance on it again.

Conclusion

All in all, we’d venture to say everyone just wants to feel loved. But we’re all at different stages of the love journey. Each of our experiences is unique. Our motivations are different.

At this present point in time, for some reason, we feel empty in the department of love. Remember, you are not alone. Open your heart to feeling love again. Remember that your soulmate(s) of love exist.

As long as we are living and breathing, this universe cannot contain all the love available to us, if we but expect feeling loved again.

LoveLifeLinks.com understands that you just wanted to feel loved and believes that in your seeking, you will find.

Remember, you can feel love anywhere. Anytime. All the time.